And, if you are the over-achiever I know you to be, help 2.
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Musings, leadership tidbits and quotes posted by a retired Navy Captain (really just a high performing 2nd Class Petty Officer) who hung up his uniform a bit too early. He still wears his Navy service on his sleeve. He needs to get over that. "ADVANCE WARNING – NO ORIGINAL THOUGHT!" A "self-appointed" lead EVANGELIST for the "cryptologic community". Keeping CRYPTOLOGY alive-one day and Sailor at a time. 2019 is 84th Anniversary of the Naval Security Group.
From the 2013 Naval Leader Planning Guide available on Navy Knowledge Online.
“A writer is someone for whom writing is more difficult than it is for other people.”
― Thomas Mann,
Essays of Three Decades
“Writing is not necessarily something to be ashamed of, but do it in private and wash your hands afterwards.”
― Robert A. Heinlein
I hope someone in your chain of command has discussed this with you on some level. If not, seek them out and ask why not? This should end up in the Chiefs Mess, the wardroom and in the Plan of the Week. Help get it there. Bring it up.
To mentor someone and help them achieve something worthy:
1) Understand who they are, and what makes them itch
2) Support them to unreasonable lengths
3) Challenge them to demonstrate what they really can be/do
4) Help them surprise themselves.
This is just Paul Hudnut’s opinion. No facts support this post.
By the way, this is also good advice for how to love someone.
I hope that I am living up to Paul’s thoughts on mentorship since they are very close to my own. Thanks Paul.
VADM James Bond Stockdale
Military Ethics
“Machiavelli, Management, and Moral Leadership.” 1987